OH man, the headboard was HARD! In my case, I know exactly what I wanted, but probably spend 60 hours trying to find an affordable version, that was in stock, that met all my requirements. I’ve got a post planned for sometime in the next couple months with tons of tips for buying a bed online. Not just the sources, but specific things to check before buying to make sure you get what you want. Good luck with the chair hunt, hopefully one of the ones on the list will break your paralysis!